The way that you love

I've got a t-shirt from my friend saying;

People always talk about love when they know nothing about loyalty.

I couldn't agree with it more because it's just so true.

I noticed that people tend to like or fancy someone new when they're being in a new place. I wonder how they easily can two timing their old ones and quickly be in love with someone whom they barely know. Which I agree that it is normal in human's social life.

I've been in three places so far. First, was in my workplace. Second, in NS camp and currently is in the college. Three places with the same love atmosphere. Before they reach the new place, they're already taken and when they have meet new people and mingle with them, they find that there is a person that have a strong chemistry between them, then they start to fancy that person.

I understand that we can't push our feelings to like someone or to stop liking someone but do you have to follow the flow when you know that you know that something is wrong? The situation is always like this:

A girl who has already taken having a scandal with a guy who has already have a girlfriend. They say they are just bestfriends but do you have to act like a couple in terms of touching, holding hands and such?

For me, if the girls two timing their boyfriends, she's the one who will rugi in the end. And it goes same to the girls who likes to pampered themselves with their guy friends. I found that it's becoming a new trend among Malaysia teenagers these day that, IT'S OKAY to holding hands and hugging with your guy bestie. To show to their friends that your bestie is everything and your relationship is just like siblings. Of course, you feel very comfortable with them and they are seem reliable too but do you have to make yourself that cheap?

Maybe I sound like a narrow-minded girl live in an urban city of KL but the fact that, where is your pride and dignity girl? Have you heard that guys always say that, "every girl is just the same" and you will get piss off after hearing that because they are comparing you with the cheap girls? Oh well, as a matter of fact that is so true. Just by adding a bit of lovey-dovey conversation and "syok" feelings in the friendship, the girl wouldn't mind to be touched by someone whom they are started to fancy with.

Love yourself before you love somebody else and be loyal to yourself before you be loyal to somebody else. The more you think about love, the less you understand what loyalty means.

Can you imagine if you see your partner holding his/her bestfriend's hands, shoulders etc, what would you feel? Try put yourself in his/her shoes then you'll understand better. And trust me, it is such a painful to have too much dirty secrets in your life.

Let's just say that, I am proud to be a "gadis timur" in certain ways.. :)