We live in a world made up of many different people with different backgrounds, nationalities, lifestyles and personalities. Obviously, people are different. But i don't know what makes me keep believing all the guys are the same. *sigh* Yeah.. im talking something gotta do with teenagers love and relationships. Logically, guys are not all the same but eventually it seems to all be the same when it comes to relationships. All the guys are the same like they don't worry if your love and his loves go on because they suck at emotions. But i can't say "all". It's a generalization to categorize "all" men are like that.
Herm.. but based on my own experience and my friend's experience.. we have came up with a conclusion, guys nowadays can't be trusted. Sometimes i don't understand them either. They make an effort to tackle the girl they like. But after they got the girl and made themself to be a part the girl's life... they're started letting her go. Now let's be more open minded. Touches between a couple nowadays such as hugs and kisses are no longer an embarassing issue. It's getting acceptable in some part of our community indeed. For the so-called modern teenagers, they think its a must thing to do when they get couple. For those who are willing to give everything including their pride and virginity to their partner for love's sake is what i call bullshit! BUT, sometimes the girls already knew bout that but they're too weak to say NO, to resist the touch and some of them actually feel happy with it. If the girls got the wrong guy, they're gonna screw up. This is what's happening in our community nowadays. The guys want "something" from the girl. After they got it, they start to feel bored coz they don't love her and so they end up by leaving the girl. *sigh*
But, if the girl had her first relationship and ending up with a jerk, they're normally heartbroken and won't trust any guy anymore. They might won't open up their heart to someone new or give themselves a chance to love someone because they are just too upset with their past relationship. Heartbroken is not a physical pain that can be described, but something deep inside. They're afraid to feel the love and lost it or do the same mistakes. So they are either choose to live the way they do, hurt, lonely, depress and sometimes just confused OR having so much fun such as flirting, busy themselves with work so they can forget the memories, relationship, and sadness quickly.
Even though, the heartedbroken girl now has moved on with her life and having a relationship with someone new, she'll probably don't want to trust and love him fully heart because of her cautioness and feeling of afraid being hurt. If her new partner is very nice, understanding and do love her so much, he will help recover the hurt and wait till the scar and the pain gone which is need alot of time. Only then the relationship between those two become stronger.
Life is just one long lesson and for everything a purpose. When we love someone, we give of ourselves freely, leaving ourselves open to joy, passion, fear and even heartache. Whoever said love makes us stronger is probably right. If having your heart broken didn't hurt, then you would probably never even be able to feel love. I would rather have my heart broken then to never have a chance at love.
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ReplyDeleteaku rasa takyah la nak becinta-cinta monyet.. belajar pun tak habis..
"wanita yg solehah adalah untuk lelaku yg soleh, dan sebalinya..."
so kalau u date a lot, kissed people around, go erotic parties n not being ashamed of it.. your live's partner will be just the same like u..
yup btol apa yg ikram ckp tuh......
ReplyDeletetapi pd zmn skrg nih org anggap
semua itu mcm satu keperluan..
tapi yg sebenarnya x....
mmg la at teenage stage kita nak
tau everything and nak cube anything
tapi biarlah berpada-pada...
bagi aiqha lah, lebih seronok kalau
kahwin dulu baru becinta...hehe...
ini hanya pendapat aiqha...
tapi yg aiqha nak ckp mmg lelaki skrg
susah nak dipercayai..jngn marah ye boys..
kalau aiqha bercinta pun bercinta
ngn kartun je!..huhu...
Totally agree with you on the virginity issue. Girls, that's the one most important thing that you own. It's your pride. Don't just give it to some guy just because you think you love him and would sacrifice anything for him. That's foolishness! Keep it for your real husband because that's the only thing that you can give to your man that you can't give to anyone else after. If you've already given it to someone who then leaves you, pity to your real future husband because he aint getting it from you anymore... someone else is wearing the crown. such a sad thing. You can do the rest that you want, kiss, hug, whatever. Just keep that one thing in one piece.
ReplyDeleteps: sorry for being a bit emo in this comment. Last time i had a related issue with my ex-gf. After so long being in a relationship with her, she told me the truth about her dirty stories and how she lost her pride to her ex-bf... and how they did it over and over again. I couldn't accept it and decided to end the relationship. Such a waste of a pretty face.
pss: When you talk about virginity, it seems like you're talking about girls' virginity. Now my question to you is, does a guy's virginity matters as much from a girl's view? Soalan cepu emas.. heheheh
"guys nowadays can't be trusted."
ReplyDeletehaha... its not that this isnt true, but i think everything with brain cant be trusted... :)
so u will have to analyze, think, and trust something to a certaint extent... Its like a gamble, just bet everything u can affort to lose, and hope that ull win... :)
ouch...
ReplyDeleteits too hot to handle!
*have read the entire entry*
ReplyDeleteAll I can say, that's only a point of view of a TEENAGE girl in love. Maybe when you get older (and mature enough), you will write another defiance entry. I bet. Hehe.