I asked that question to Alwi and here's what he answered.I was at my friend's room and suddenly saw an ironed guy's shirt hanging nicely. Without asking her, I knew that was his boyfriend's shirt. I was quite surprised to see such thing. I thought things like wash and iron boyfriend's shirts aren't longer practicable among today's university students. Most of hostels provided laundry services and it's so embarrassing to give your dirty clothes to your girlfriend. She is just your girlfriend.
"No. I suruh you makan tahi, you nak makan tak?"
Sometimes, guys are so lucky to have a very willing girlfriend. Or girlfriends, I shall say. I remember my tuition teacher, who was a player during his university years. He has a girlfriend to do his laundry, another one to copy/make a note for him and the prettiest girlfriend will be his 'entertainer'.
Another situation is the most common one.
"I want to get thinner"
"I look so fat"
"I'm desperately need to slim down because he wants to see me wearing that sexy top"
Their excuses: "My boyfriend hates seeing me with fleshy and flabby body"
The girl should ask her boyfriend, "Which one you love the most? Me, myself or my body?"
Third situation. It always happen to the girls who wear scarf.
After being a while in a relationship, the guy suddenly asks his girl,
"May I see you without scarf? I don't mind whether you want to show me one on one or you can just bluetooth your photo. I always wanted to see your beautiful hair. I promise. I'll keep the photo safely in my phone."
And guys can always go far than that.
"I want to see you naked but if you're too shy.. picture of you wearing tank top and boxer will do. Your skin must be very beautiful as I always imagine."
If you're one of these kind of girls, when will you finally come to your senses?
Of course there should be willingness in a relationship but you are big and smart enough to differentiate your lover's favor. Honestly, an educated and wise lover knows how and when to turn down their partner's favor without making he/she feels offended. Or maybe some of them didn't even ask a favor over such thing. I would do anything for love but I wouldn't do that.
But then again, love is blind while offering and requesting are two different thing.
p/s: For those who are concerned. I didn't get offended when Alwi answered that. I know it sounds a bit harsh but I understood it clearly. =)
Love IS blind. It gets stupid only when a couple of idiots can't find the true light inside and let themselves drown into the blindness of love. Love is subjective after all. =)
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